Friday, June 15, 2018

                                    David Talkington and Van update

     
Dave in our current van "Captain Cave Man" aka "Goldie"

      Well this spring came with lots of weather and changes. Dave is working hard in physical therapy for neck range of motion and it seems to be working. We are thankful he has this opportunity and that he is making such great progress.
             

     Earlier this month we started a new season in life. We were honored to be sharing our hpp (hypophosphatasia) story of hope with others in the hpp community. Our heart is to encourage others that life with hpp is worth living even though there are some adjustments and bumps in the road to negotiate at times that are different from other's life challenges. I can't tell you how encouraging it is to share your story with others and listen to others share theirs. This is something we can do to give back to the community that has given so much to cheer us on and we are honored to do so!
                                                     
  Photo Credit- Yudelkis Exposito Ledesma 
                                                                     
     Many of you have asked for an update on the van and the fundraising for the new one. Since our last update Worth While Life  had a bowling fundraiser and raised $7000 that they deposited in Dave's Stable account for the van! We also received an anonymous check for $2500 this week for the van to the Stable account!!! We are so thankful for the love and kindness that has been poured out toward us! It has been truly humbling. The Help Hope Live account has grown to over $6030 as of today!!!  Words can not express how thankful we are to the many family, friends, and others we have not met yet that have given towards this project. Another thing you can do is share our story or consider a fundraiser to help us reach our goal. Just contact me if you are interested.
                                                   
So thankful for our family and how supportive they are! Sign by Kim Justice of Simply Sisters

       Our latest step is to apply for a grant to help with the van since, as you can see, this is a large project. We finally found a grant that could fit but it takes months for them to process to see if Dave qualifies. We were able to submit this application yesterday and couldn't be more excited. In the meantime we continue to share the Help Hope Live website for any who would like to donate financially and follow our progress. It is tax deductible, which is a huge bonus! They also do matching funds through participating companies.The website also has info for sending checks as well if that is what you prefer. We appreciate all who are praying, sending positive thoughts, and cheering us on in this marathon project that we pray will soon be accomplished as our other van is getting pretty tired. We are thankful for our old van but our season with it is coming to an end soon and we are looking forward to the huge blessing that our new van will be.
                                                 
Dave driving to his next destination! This is a great new season for us! 
June 2018

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Tuesday, May 1, 2018

Soft Bones HPP Advocacy: It's All About Family

Soft Bones HPP Advocacy: It's All About Family

     Hello everyone,my name is Sharon Talkington and my husband Dave has Hypophosphatasia. He and our family have paid a price in our HPP journey through hours of hospital visits and years of patiently studying this disease in every day. We've made it through hospital trips for broken bones that we have no idea how he fractured,  repeatedly requesting doctors look up Hypophosphatasia, and asking them to do some X-rays when they don't have a clue how to handle Dave's case. These experiences and more have all been par for the course in our HPP journey. Our daughters have joined us in that journey by caring for Dad on bad days, educating doctors about HPP, and helping him to get in the right position for x-rays because the techs don't realize the severity of his condition.


     In reality, Dave has been educating people his whole life about HPP by example and word of mouth. As we've been married, I've gradually joined him as I came to realize how important understanding HPP was for us and especially in the last few years through the internet, searching medical journals, as well as connecting with Soft Bones through their website, Facebook page, and groups I have learned a lot. Our daughters and Dave joke about the fact that many women are reading magazines but I am reading yet another medical journal.
     Our daughter Rebekah joined us in this journey primarily in 2008 when we discovered Dave broke both femurs 6 months apart. The first femur break we waited 8 hours to get into an ER room to be seen because we needed to go to a hospital that might have a clue what to do with him. I was totally exhausted when X-ray time came and Rebekah took over advocating for what treatment and accommodations he needed for the X-rays. She also went to great lengths in driving slow enough for the bumps on the highway as well as caring for her Dad at home the next day while I took her sister to the ER because she was sick!

                                                 Bending over backwards to advocate for HPP. 
                                         The shirt says "We are stronger in the places where we've been broken."

     Rebekah also joined me in attending ASBMR last September to advocate for HPP with Soft Bones. She was a part of the technology information that helped Soft Bones go on Facebook live the first two times in it's history! Such exciting times! Rebekah also went for coffee and food when others were volunteering at the booth and couldn't get away. She always has a heart to help and be a part of the team whatever that looks like.

                                                            Flying to Atlanta for ASBMR

     Rachel has joined her sister in advocating for HPP with social media. She is probably best known for her Pinterest Board for Soft Bones Hypophosphatasia which has almost 200 pins currently! Both of our daughters have extensive knowledge about blogging, hash tagging, and social media and have advised me about quite a bit on social media in the last few months. They helped me learn to encourage others with the knowledge of how to hash tag for Soft Bones and HPP as well as learning how to use Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. Rachel also helps with Dave's care on rough days and she has her Dad's sense of humor as well as gift to laugh and make him laugh. When Rachel is present there is joy in the house.


     Our daughters are some of the first people to advise others on health care issues around them, jump in when there is an emergency and instruct others what to do when their loved one is in the ER or the hospital. This is because we all believe that bringing purpose out of our pain is part of what makes this HPP journey worth it. It is so amazing to be able to connect with others around the globe to inform them about HPP and what they can do to treat their disease or symptoms depending upon where they're at on the global map. Soft Bones has been a huge part of our journey and we look forward to working with them more in the next season of our lives.

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Tuesday, March 6, 2018

                                Could That Dream Possibly Mean Something?
                             
A gift from my friend Julie a fellow dreamer!

     Several years ago I had a dream that was so strange I thought perhaps God was trying to tell me something. I dreamed that my husband was in a Children's Hospital and that they were running tests on him for a week. At the end of the dream as the medical staff walked out of the room they said next week we start the treatment, which they said in a very matter of fact like way. My immediate thought was "What's the treatment?" and I woke up!

     These type of dreams can have you wondering was that the pizza or the potato salad I ate last night or can there be something that is trying to be communicated to me from beyond my mind and greasy junk foods? So I kind of put it on a shelf for a while and then one day I was talking to a friend and I told her the dream. We both were puzzled, especially since my husband was an adult. Why in the world would an adult be in a children's hospital and could there ever possibly be a treatment for my husbands ultra rare disease, hypophosphatasia?

Our family on the hpp journey with Dave

      We had been told back in 1994 or so that because the disease was so rare never in my husbands lifetime would there be a treatment for it. Well, we knew the doctor was telling us the truth but we left that doctors office, looked at each other and knew we were going to pray for a treatment not just for my husband but for others that we don't even know around the world that need that treatment as well.

     Several years later we began to hear about a clinical trial for a treatment and it was having positive results. As time went on it was so amazing even many of the researchers and doctors were saying it is doing good beyond what they even expected! Fast forward a few years and I am watching a video of kids before and after treatment and they are so much better that I am weeping and sobbing! My husband and I were totally amazed and so happy for all who were getting the treatment and making great progress on it! One day my husband told me that if the kids on treatment didn't have to go through what he has in life with this disease it will all be worth it even if he never got the treatment.

     As time went on I remembered the dream that I had had and pondered could this mean that my husband will someday get the treatment? Well as the trials moved forward one day we found out that some of the places that had trials were Children's hospitals and they were now opening up for adults to join trials!!! Oh my goodness! Was my dream coming true? This dream gave us hope to hold on that eventually my husband would get treatment. That day of treatment came for my husband two years ago today!
                                               
The book my dream is in.

     Its been an interesting journey to say the least but we are extremely grateful for the treatment and the positive results we have witnessed in my husbands life. I have come to pay closer attention to dreams in particular that I can't seem to shake. A dear friend of ours, Michael B. French, was writing a book last year about dreams, their interpretations, and can dreams really mean something beyond pizza or their face value. I'm honored that in Michaels book Dream Stories, he included my dream that I just shared with you along with many other dreams and interpretations. His book is available here or on Amazon.
     Today we celebrate two years of progress, breakthrough, and dreams come true for my husband, our family, and hypophosphatasia patients around the world. Rare disease patients around the world hope and dream of treatment and cures. Keep dreaming....

Saturday, February 10, 2018

Dave's Van Vision!!!

This Honda Odyssey is a possibility for Dave to consider.

Recently we went to Columbus Mobility Specialist to check out some of their vans and get some more information about options for Dave. When you are shopping for a handicap van you need to decide on a make and model of van and then what adaptations you want to have made on the van. We have spent hours and hours looking online but it was time to look in person. There is a lot to learn and we so appreciate the journey we are on. My Dad went along with us to help us with the mechanics end and we felt like it was time for us to start getting our hands on the product to see what feels right to us. 
Here is one we looked at.

The salesman showing us a handicap accessible van.

This model seemed to be higher off the ground for a handicap minivan than the others we have looked at. There was plenty of room to enter with the wheelchair and turn around which was very nice. There was no carpet on the floor but had the rubberized flooring instead. It also had key fob entry and a bench back seat.

Dave and Dad pondering this possibility.

This was a good stop on our journey and we look forward to the next one as we search for Daves handicap van. Our goal of $65000 was confirmed again at this dealership. We are currently at $5780. Many thanks to our family and friend for helping to grow our Help Hope Live Fund to help us purchase that new van soon!  If you would like to give or help with a fundraiser please connect through this link. 

HelpHopeLive David D Talkington Fund for Van and Unpaid Medical Bills

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Friday, February 9, 2018

             Soft Bones Region Lead Training & Carlos Bakery AKA The Cake Boss
                                                                    Here I am a Region Lead with Soft Bones
                                                                            Photo Credit Rebekah Talkington


 Recently, I was honored to accept a Region Lead position with Soft Bones US Hypophosphatasia Foundation. This organization has helped so many with hypophosphatasia through education, connection, and research. David, my husband, has hypophosphatasia (HPP) and I remember the day about ten years ago when a doctor told us that he had one other patient with hpp and we were so excited and asked if they could arrange a meeting. They said maybe but unfortunately it never happened.

     Most rare disease patients these days are meeting through social media groups such as Facebook and it is wonderful that there are now ways of reaching out to others who have the same struggles. Just this last summer, my family discovered that meeting in person others who share similar experiences is such a powerful experience that patients want to do it over and over again once they start. It's so amazing to be rare and meet another person who is like you. It's empowering, it's validating, you have found your tribe, your family, that you never knew was out there before. Part of what I will be doing as a region lead is to help facilitate those meetings in my area, and I'm so excited to be apart of such a wonderful journey.
           
                                              Out to dinner with fellow Region Lead Dawn Gullett. 
                                                                            Photo Credit Jonathan Gullett

      To make sure I was prepared, I went to New Jersey for some training with other region leads from all over the country who bravely said yes to volunteer our time and help Soft Bones and patients connect so that those struggling know they are not alone. This was a great time of teaching, learning, and empowering connection as we saw old friends we have met before, brand new friends, and some friends we have "met online" but had yet to meet face-to-face. This time definitely makes me think of the saying "Make new friends but keep the old, one is silver and the other is gold."

                                                       I can't believe I'm at Carlos Bakery!

     After training we went out to an amazing dinner and after dinner as we were walking out to catch the shuttle back to the hotel someone said "Do you want to come with us to the Cake Boss place? It's about a five minute walk from here." What?????? The Cake Boss place is 5 minutes walk from here???? No way!!!!! Our family loves to watch the show and my husband has been saying we should go there someday! Well, I didn't wear the right shoes for this but I have to go because my husband couldn't make this trip in the middle of the winter. So we walked down the street to the cake boss place, Carlos Bakery, and there we all were for a sweet treat.

Photo Credit Jenna Aoga

     When we got there I was in awe! Then they asked me would you want to take Dave something? My first though was, what could I fly back with? We got some pics and I begged everyone please don't post this to Facebook yet. I picked out a brownie to take home to my sweet husband and took pics with sweet friends. I tucked that brownie in and brought it home to my hubby the next day and he split it with me and our two sweet daughters! They couldn't believe it! I think our daughters words were "Shut up! No way you went to Carlos Bakery!" Yes, yes, I did thanks to a trip I said yes to and some new friends who said lets go!

                                                   My favorite cake they had with Calla Lillies!

      Hey Carlos Bakery! Thanks for being awesome! I need to do a fundraiser this year as a region lead for Soft Bones. Would you consider donating or partnering with us to fight hypophosphatasia www.softbones.org ? Either way I hope to come back to one of your locations some day with my husband and daughters to get our first canoli together! Oh and the Calla Lilly cake is one of my favorites you had on display! Truly amazing! Thanks Soft Bones for the training and opportunity. It lead to a dream fulfilled in part for our family!

                                                I need to come back with the family for a cannoli!


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Friday, May 5, 2017

Soft Bones HPP Exchange at Ohio State University

Nov 4, 2016

     Today, we had the first Soft Bones HPP Info Exchange in Ohio. An info exchange is a new concept for a meeting where HPP patients, families, caregivers, doctors, dentists, researchers, and Soft Bones representatives all gather together to discuss HPP and related issues. This meeting was a dream come true for me and my family, as we've lived through doctors and medical staff who did not know what to do with my husbands disorder. When we first started this journey we might hear of a doctor somewhere treating a patient with Hypophosphatasia (HPP), but we were never able to meet them face-to-face or schedule an appointment to speak with them. So this meeting was a shift towards more communication between patients, advocates, and medical staff as well brought awareness to Hypophosphatasia.

                                           In the OSU Dental research lab. (Photo credit: Denise Goodbar)


     The idea of this meeting began with a thought I had while I was with Soft Bones Advocacy in Action at ASBMR this past September. While walking around Atlanta it occurred to me that we could possibly have a meeting at Ohio State University. I turned to Monica Baugh, who is from Ohio, and asked her, "Do you think we could have a meeting at Ohio State University?" She replied, "Sure, why not?" Then that Saturday night in Atlanta SoftBones held a dinner for HPP patients, Alexion Pharma, and doctors who have contributed to HPP. Dr. Ing, an endocrinologist at Ohio State University, asked if we would like to do something similar to the event we were attending at OSU and if Monica, my daughter Rebekah, and myself would help organize it. We all happily agreed and I asked Denise Goodbar what we should do to get this meeting organized and planned. Denise grabbed Deborah Fowler and they spoke with Dr. Ing that night about doing an Info Exchange meeting. He already had a date in mind in November so there was not much time to get things organized. However, we all worked together through email and phone calls and by Nov 4, 2016 we were ready and the meeting was happening.
     
     
                         Under the microscope a deer jaw from the archeology department. (Photo credit: Denise Goodbar)
                                       

     Dr. Ing helped us get a room at OSU and we all gathered there together in a myriad of HPP patients, caregivers, undiagnosed relatives, a genetic counselor, dental researcher (Dr. Brian Foster) and two of his associates, Soft Bones President Deborah Fowler and Denise Goodbar as well as Sue Krug and Dr. Luke Mortensen via video conference and in addition a lovely surprise visit from Dr. Rebecca Jackson. We enjoyed breakfast together, special goodies from Soft Bones, as well as a lunch that was delicious!
               

Delicious food to keep us nourished during the meeting provided by Soft Bones. (Photo Credit: Denise Goodbar)

      The information that we received during this meeting was so helpful to everyone gathered. First Dawn Allain, Genetic Counselor and Associate Professor of Clinical Medicine, Ohio State University, Wexner Medical Center, shared the path of how HPP can be diagnosed with genetic testing. She also talked about how we are still learning about HPP status such as carrier versus mild forms of HPP.

      Next, Dr. Foster, of Ohio State University College of Dentistry research, shared with us the basics of teeth development and structure as well as different things that can impact teeth development and dental health. He shared that the cementum is the most affected in an HPP patients teeth, but we need research in this area. He also emphasized more dental publishing about HPP in fields such as orthodontia is needed. It was interesting to hear him and his associates tell about their research in the lab and what they are working on. Dr. Foster has been working with HPP mice and is connected with Dr Milan who works at Sandford Burhnam. They are currently working on ways to develop milder cases of HPP in the mice to see how they are affected by treatments. It's so exciting to see a growing interest in HPP with OSU's medical and dental faculty as well as Nationwide Children's Hospital.

Dr Patrick M. Lloyd Dean of OSU College of Dentistry demonstrating first year student dental methods.
(Photo credit: Denise Goodbar)


     In the afternoon those who were able to stay enjoyed a tour of Ohio State College of Dentistry with the Dean, Dr. Patrick M. Lloyd, as our guide. It was amazing to see the process students go through to become dentists and go into different specialties such as prosthodontics and orthodontia. At the end we had special clearance to go into Dr Fosters lab to see the exciting work they are doing there. Research is a key and Soft Bones recognizes that every year with their grant. This year Dr Foster was the winner of the grant and we were honored to hear from him and see what he and his colleagues do in their lab.
       
         

Standing is Dr Brian Foster winner of Soft Bones 2016 research grant in the OSU school of dentistry research lab with staff and our tour group.
                                                                         (Photo credit: Denise Goodbar)

     It is my belief that we are connecting the dots for HPP with the help of Soft Bones to move to a new level of treatment. Also, it is very likely in my opinion that Ohio will not only treat patients locally but also beyond state lines. I know in the past we would see specialist's who had seen a patient(s) earlier that day who had come from out of state to see them and had been doing so for several years. Through hearing from others about their experiences with HPP, I know that many people travel out of state to start their HPP journey. However, I believe it is important that we connect with those that are close to home so as to have local support when a fracture occurs and have that relationship and continuity of care for HPP issues. Having both the support in far-away cities and close to home is a beautiful circumstance, and I pray that more people discover those around them rallying to their aid as my family has had people do in the past as well as in recent events in our lives.


                          Our dear family friend Dr Rebecca Jackson of Ohio State University Wexner Medical Center. 
                                                                         (Photo credit:Rebekah Talkington)
      What Soft Bones has accomplished in just a few years has completely amazed me as I've watched it unfold! The Info Exchange was the first opportunity I have had to hear Deborah Fowler speak at a patient meeting and when I say that she is on the front lines with Soft Bones fighting HPP it's the truth. She, along with Soft Bones, lobbied to get Oct. 30th on the calendar as Hypophosphatasia Awareness Day and that was granted in a wonderful victory. Now, internationally Oct. 30th is recognized and celebrated as HPP Awareness Day. That victory was incredible but there is so much more that SoftBones and the HPP community is doing. From networking with other HPP organizations around the world, to fundraising and connecting researchers with grant money, to helping HPP patients individually as well as in groups, they truly are connecting the dots to find the key to HPP.
             
                                         Thanks Soft Bones for hosting our first meeting in  O-H... I-O!


      This meeting gathered together doctors, researchers, patients, medical professionals, and caregivers to each have a voice in the discussion of what is going on with HPP, treatment, and what we can do in the future. I am so excited to have been a part of the process to facilitate the gathering of such a diverse group of people and I look forward to seeing more of the dots connected for an amazing, bright future with a cure for HPP.


If you have HPP and are from Ohio please comment on this post, message me, or email me or Soft Bones to let them know if you are interested in participating in a meeting in the future.




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Friday, March 31, 2017

Spring!!!! We made it!!!!

   
Photo Credit: Rachel Talkington

Ah Spring you have finally arrived!!! We have longed to see you come and give way to summer!

     We live in the state of Ohio, in the United States, and a few years ago winter became much more difficult after my husband broke two femurs in 6 months! Although the snow is white and beautiful and the ice can be pretty from the inside of the house it came to have another side for us. Weather changes meant increased pain with my husbands HPP, overall fatigue, and discomfort. Riding that roller coaster is not fun nor is it seen as something to look forward to. I have realized in the last few years in February I would start thinking "come on March". If we can just get to March I believe we will make it. Well we did it again.
     
Photo Credit: Rachel Talkington

       Surprisingly this winter we didn't have to shovel as much snow and put out as much salt and calcium to melt the ice off the deck, ramp, and driveway for safety for Dave. For this we are very grateful. This year was improved also due to medical treatment as well for Dave and that was a blessing as it did help decrease some of his pain and increase his mobility.

                                                              Photo Credit:Rachel Talkington

     We also received notice that another year of treatment has been approved for Dave and that is something we fought long and hard for last winter. This winter it was pretty seamless, is was wonderful to have breakthrough in an areas that before seemed like as cold and harsh as a winters wind. Like night and day! Soooo grateful!!!

                                                             Photo Credit:Rachel Talkington

     For those who have asked you can access the update on Dave through his HopeHelpLive link. Thanks to all who have helped us with that project!

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