Dave's Van Vision!!!

This Honda Odyssey is a possibility for Dave to consider.

Recently we went to Columbus Mobility Specialist to check out some of their vans and get some more information about options for Dave. When you are shopping for a handicap van you need to decide on a make and model of van and then what adaptations you want to have made on the van. We have spent hours and hours looking online but it was time to look in person. There is a lot to learn and we so appreciate the journey we are on. My Dad went along with us to help us with the mechanics end and we felt like it was time for us to start getting our hands on the product to see what feels right to us. 

Here is one we looked at.

The salesman showing us a handicap accessible van.

This model seemed to be higher off the ground for a handicap minivan than the others we have looked at. There was plenty of room to enter with the wheelchair and turn around which was very nice. There was no carpet on the floor but had the rubberized flooring instead. It also had key fob entry and a bench back seat.

Dave and Dad pondering this possibility.

This was a good stop on our journey and we look forward to the next one as we search for Daves handicap van. Our goal of $65000 was confirmed again at this dealership. We are currently at $5780. Many thanks to our family and friend for helping to grow our Help Hope Live Fund to help us purchase that new van soon!  If you would like to give or help with a fundraiser please connect through this link. 

HelpHopeLive David D Talkington Fund for Van and Unpaid Medical Bills

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             Soft Bones Region Lead Training & Carlos Bakery AKA The Cake Boss

                                                                    Here I am a Region Lead with Soft Bones
                                                                            Photo Credit Rebekah Talkington


 Recently, I was honored to accept a Region Lead position with Soft Bones US Hypophosphatasia Foundation. This organization has helped so many with hypophosphatasia through education, connection, and research. David, my husband, has hypophosphatasia (HPP) and I remember the day about ten years ago when a doctor told us that he had one other patient with hpp and we were so excited and asked if they could arrange a meeting. They said maybe but unfortunately it never happened.

     Most rare disease patients these days are meeting through social media groups such as Facebook and it is wonderful that there are now ways of reaching out to others who have the same struggles. Just this last summer, my family discovered that meeting in person others who share similar experiences is such a powerful experience that patients want to do it over and over again once they start. It's so amazing to be rare and meet another person who is like you. It's empowering, it's validating, you have found your tribe, your family, that you never knew was out there before. Part of what I will be doing as a region lead is to help facilitate those meetings in my area, and I'm so excited to be apart of such a wonderful journey.
           

                                              Out to dinner with fellow Region Lead Dawn Gullett. 
                                                                            Photo Credit Jonathan Gullett

      To make sure I was prepared, I went to New Jersey for some training with other region leads from all over the country who bravely said yes to volunteer our time and help Soft Bones and patients connect so that those struggling know they are not alone. This was a great time of teaching, learning, and empowering connection as we saw old friends we have met before, brand new friends, and some friends we have "met online" but had yet to meet face-to-face. This time definitely makes me think of the saying "Make new friends but keep the old, one is silver and the other is gold."

                                                       I can't believe I'm at Carlos Bakery!

     After training we went out to an amazing dinner and after dinner as we were walking out to catch the shuttle back to the hotel someone said "Do you want to come with us to the Cake Boss place? It's about a five minute walk from here." What?????? The Cake Boss place is 5 minutes walk from here???? No way!!!!! Our family loves to watch the show and my husband has been saying we should go there someday! Well, I didn't wear the right shoes for this but I have to go because my husband couldn't make this trip in the middle of the winter. So we walked down the street to the cake boss place, Carlos Bakery, and there we all were for a sweet treat.

Photo Credit Jenna Aoga

     When we got there I was in awe! Then they asked me would you want to take Dave something? My first though was, what could I fly back with? We got some pics and I begged everyone please don't post this to Facebook yet. I picked out a brownie to take home to my sweet husband and took pics with sweet friends. I tucked that brownie in and brought it home to my hubby the next day and he split it with me and our two sweet daughters! They couldn't believe it! I think our daughters words were "Shut up! No way you went to Carlos Bakery!" Yes, yes, I did thanks to a trip I said yes to and some new friends who said lets go!

                                                   My favorite cake they had with Calla Lillies!

      Hey Carlos Bakery! Thanks for being awesome! I need to do a fundraiser this year as a region lead for Soft Bones. Would you consider donating or partnering with us to fight hypophosphatasia www.softbones.org ? Either way I hope to come back to one of your locations some day with my husband and daughters to get our first canoli together! Oh and the Calla Lilly cake is one of my favorites you had on display! Truly amazing! Thanks Soft Bones for the training and opportunity. It lead to a dream fulfilled in part for our family!

                                                I need to come back with the family for a cannoli!

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David Needs Your Help to Get a Handicap Van!

12/2016
     Some call it faith, some call it positive thoughts, and some call it positive confession but I am here to tell you we are getting a new Handicap van. How? Well let me tell you about our options.

This is a possibility for David's new handicap van. 

    First of all  our current handicap accessible van is a sweet tan colored Dodge named Goldie. Goldie came to us in 2009 when we desperately needed her. The year prior to this my husband Dave had broken both of his femurs within 6 months of each other. After this occurred he had to be in a power wheelchair all the time and we needed a way to transport that chair wherever he needed to go. Unfortunately, there are no government programs for those who are on Social Security disability to transport a power wheelchair when people need to go to other places than their home. I know it's hard for some of you to believe, but it's true and it can keep those who are disabled home-bound for months at a time.Family and friends prayed with us and looked for a handicap van, and eventually we found a used one with low milage on it. Goldie was given to us after many months of friends and family fixing it up to where the mini vans ramp would deploy properly and a new seat was put in for Dave so he could turn, transfer, and drive. We didn't complain or push for the van to be finished sooner during that time, we just prayed and trusted God had a plan and indeed He did.

                                        Goldie (AKA Captain Caveman), our current handicap van.

     Fast forward to the last few years where friends, family, our pastor, and mechanic have begun to encourage us to look for a new van. They would point this out in different ways like, "You know the van won't last forever," and "you're going to need to replace that some day." This was very kind of them, honestly, but we don't have the money to purchase one and finding an affordable van that has all of the necessities that meet my husband needs is nearly impossible. While I have looked into it, I've not been able to find grant money for one either and if you know of grant money, a program, or someone who is giving away a handicap van please contact me at sharonnmylife@gmail.com. We need the van to meet some necessary qualifications for my husband David's needs and of course pass our mechanics inspection.

      As a result of our search, however, we've found a few ways we may be able to get the help we need. If you would like to help us acquire a handicap van and meet any other medical bills for David we have set up a HelpHopeLive campaign. HelpHOPELive is a trusted nonprofit organization that has been providing community-based fundraising guidance to patients and their families for more than 30 years. You can give through this link to help David and to top it all off it's tax deductible. If you work for a company that does matched giving HelpHopeLive can receive that as well for David! All checks should be made out to HelpHopeLive with the memo section noting "In Honor of David D. Talkington".

Visit this link to donate or mail to:

HelpHOPELive 

2 Radnor Corporate Center 

100 Matsonford Road
Suite 100
Radnor, PA 19087

     The other possibility we have found in this process that could help us buy a handicap van is called a Stable account . Stable accounts are tax free savings plans for disability related expenses where you can save and invest without losing needs based benefits. The cool thing is that we have opened one up for my husband and we, our family, friends, and even companies can contribute to help us get the van or other things that my husband may need but would not be covered by our income or other programs. We have started the account out with $50 ourselves. My husband can receive up to $14,000 a year in this account. We would appreciate it if you would consider giving toward that goal by Dec 31,2016! Then early in 2017 our goal is to raise another $14,000 in this account. That sounds like a lot of money but  the new handicap vans we have been looking at that would suit my husband's needs average about $60,000. Do I believe in miracles? Yes I do!

                                                              My husband David Talkington. <3

Please consider giving into my husbands Stable account. If you do give please respond to the email we have sent you from Stable or send me your email address to sharonnmylife@gmail.com so I can send you the link. The gifts to Stable accounts are not tax deductible and are not compatible with matching gifts from employers. Thank you so much for reading this, considering it, and praying that this need will be met. I will update with another post when we receive the van or when the Stable account reaches $14,000 for the calendar year. Please feel free to share this blog post!

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